1.

CLARITY.

You want me.

I get to completely focus on you, and you like it.

I am aroused when someone shows a respectful desire for me.

I am a kindsexual—if you are nice to me and offer consistent evidence that you are a kind person who values me and wants to get intimate, my arousal will skyrocket.

Clear is kind—and makes me feel safe, which is hot.

We agree on what we’re going to do together and establish a dialogue of open communication from the get-go

This frame allows for greater physical pleasure, deeper intimacy, and begins trust-building.

We talk about how to handle discoveries of unknowns during our time together.

We stick to what we agreed upon during a play session and never negotiate up.

I am turned on by Collaboration!!!

I call sex “original creativity” and we are sexual artists during our time together:

we share our vision, agree on the outlines of our co-creation, and improvise the specifics as we go, inspired by the moment

2.

COMMUNITY.

Ladies: loving, open-minded, beautiful horny pervert goddess geniuses.

Staff: they keep this place running and do their best to take care of us; they all deserve a raise.

Regulars: building a connection over time, getting to see how people grow, and supporting them in reaching their personal,  creative and professional goals is extremely rewarding

My Beautiful Oasis: Ms. Kitchen, Magic Hot Tub, Chilly Pool, Mr. Gym, Madame Parlour and Lady Courtyard keep the humans here company.

Desert Animals and Landscape: Raven, hare, bunny, kittycat, all the birds, beetles, bugs and lizards whose specific names I don't know yet, beautiful sky, amazing mountains, and the vast vistas that lead to them.

3.

INDEPENDENCE.

While I love being in community here, I love that I can participate in my own way, and that we all get to work in safe, legal ways that are in line with our values.

My time at the ranch funds my creative endeavors as an artist—writing, podcasting (check out How to Woo!), and exploring story-based ways to erotically educate, without ever needing to worry about getting dropped by an advertiser.

4.

STABLE NOVELTY AND ADVENTURE

I love meeting new people—especially when the frame of the connection is clear.

Even if it’s just for a tour!

Even better if it’s a bucket list one-timer.

Even better if it’s a regular I get to build a connection with!

I love receivng stories of how you woo!!

And personal stories in general—

Of my own clients.

Of guests who might not even be my clients.

Of the ladies!!!

I love how much I get to learn by speaking to people who have so many different backgrounds and perspectives.

I LOVE learning about what people are into!!!!! First-and-second-hand.

I LOVE how different everyone is as a lover!

5.

INTIMACY.

I am a global secret keeper!!! While I love going deep with guests in conversation on my podcast How to Woo, there is nothing like figuring out how to actually woo another human being.

We co-create a container of privacy, just for us.

We can be exactly who we are in that moment, shed judgement, embrace our desires, and see what we discover.

6.

ENERGY EXCHANGE.

I love the swirl of the exchange.

I love that I learn something new and different and valuable from everyone.

I love feeling valued.

I have a money kink; it turns me on to get rented!

I love that my clients are worshipful lovers. They come to be worshiped, they treat me with the type of desire and respect they want to receive, and they know that because they are getting to skip all the slow “normal” steps of courting that build intimacy and show people we truly value them, money takes the place and allows us to fast-forward, skip ahead, and let go of any expectation for the future.

The clear energetic exchange creates a perfect container for us to be our full selves, co-create that deeply intimate experience, and remember how wonderful it is to be alive on this planet, in a human body, feeling connected.

I love feeling purposeful.

My goal is always to spread ripples of love.

When I am feeling fucked, I am clear on my life mission and get more writing done, am more motivated to book travel plans and let people know when and where my next photoshoot pop-ups are going to be, and getting wanted and fucked by other people who value sex as much as I do is a HUGE life turn-on.

I LOVE SATISFYING PEOPLE. I’m usually in Top space these days, but my sexual awakening origin story was as a service submissive. And my family raised me to be loving, generous, and to share my gifts with humanity.

I love co-creating something unique, with someone, every time.

Every person has a unique energy signature.

My body is different every day.

I love experiencing, in the most personal ways, how similar and different we are.

TL;DR:

Getting to spread ripples of love through the deepest in-person connection is my #1 favorite thing in existence.